How do you understand your husband's needs
difficult-to-understand and
engaging personality,
There are many studies
on the differences between men and women in thinking and personality.
To the point that some
prefer to think that the opposite sex is coming from another planet due to the
big differences between them that make understanding and dealing difficult for
some people,
This puts both men and
women in a confusing situation
This has led many
women to treat men as different, difficult-to-handle beings,
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Given the nature of
women, she is always looking for solutions to this problem and seeks to
understand the personality of men more
, Which often made you
read on this topic
But before you start
reading, remember that there are many similarities between the nature of men
and the nature of women, despite the differences that many always focus on.
Understand the nature
of a man and his personality.
The wife controls her
mood and endures the mood of the volatile husband,
She has to control her
mood and set her temper when the husband is in a bad mood,
For example if the
husband feels angry,
The wife has to
control her temper and try to control her
This is because the
mood is contagious, which creates problems between the two parties. Show
appropriate reactions,
Where the wife must be
a person aware of her reactions when dealing with her moody husband,
As a person is often
not responsible for some of the behaviors and behaviors that may appear in
front of temperamental persons
But she has to act
rationally while dealing with him. Discovering a strategy and method for
dealing with the pair over time,
As it may take some
time for the wife to be able to understand her husband,
The plan is to
understand the moody husband by leaving him alone, which helps him solve this
problem, and of course this may help her in return.
. Knowing that his mood
is temporary,
As the conviction that
this situation will pass is the best way to solve this problem, and balance
when the husband feels bad
, As the wife must help
him by supporting him and not abandoning him emotionally,
Rather, offering
affection, kindness and sympathy for him
. Show respect for the
husband, as most of the husband’s bad feeling is caused by anger or depression
caused by his lack of respect from the people around him
So the wife makes sure
that her husband feels that he respects him, even if she does not say that to
him in the face, that would make his condition better.
Interest in his
hobbies,
Since the wife's
interest in what he loves the husband from his hobbies is a wonderful thing
that helps to improve his mood
, Such as purchasing
some equipment and related things
, Or like leaving space
for him to enjoy his hobbies,
Or share it with her
sometimes. [4] The wife surprises her husband like buying something he loves,
booking a trip, or hiking together, as she can surprise him sometimes to
improve his mood
He left and ignored
some things, and the wife forgave her husband for his mistakes, such as
forgetting the anniversary of their marriage, because the wife must leave the
matter and not mention it, so she must stop asking questions about this
subject, what happened in the past must be forgotten and forgive him
Caring for the
husband, especially when the husband is acting inappropriate, the wife must not
ridicule him, but rather take care of him and make him feel that she is there
for him.
If he is going through
a bad day, he should be given some space and told that he is there for him
, When the husband knows
how important it is to his wife, this will make a big difference in their
relationship
Stop grumbling
As some people often
think that this is easy for the wife,
But the truth is that
it is difficult to apply, so if a wife wants something,
Or there was something
bothering her, and the husband did,
The wife must calmly
say this to him away from grumbling,
Because it may cause
inconvenience and resentment to her husband
Trust in him, as the
wife must make her husband feel that she trusts him
Then he will try hard
not to break this trust, so the wife should avoid doubting him
, Spying on his phone or
email
Or spying on him when
he left the house unless there was a real reason not to trust him
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